When I converse with my reason, the toughest debate is between my good ol' desires and the inner knowledge that I am doing something wrong.
How do I demonstrate that I am able to recognize a genuine Christian-inclined woman from a very kind (and hot) woman that may eventually be Zezebel dressed as Mary? It is not exactly like women walk around with sign post on their front head saying "Reserved by God for..." It is hard enough to know what women think, and personally, I have not even passed the class of "guessing" what women think; now you ask me to find GOD in one...sounds easier to undress a woman in a public place in Saudi Arabia. To that my reason would say:
You still expect the woman to reveal herself to you, instead of developing the skills to identify the right one.
Truth be said, men faillure to try to discover and find the right women for them has been replaced by the ease at which they discover other stuffs. Cm'on, why would I play Dr. Phil, when Boobs, legs and booty are easly revealed to me, this is what I am talking about, bring sexy back, we'll check out the bill later.
Funny, getting into a relationship on impulses and expecting it to turn into something stable later is similar to jumping off a plane without checking your parachute, and hoping that it will work as you get closer to the ground. If it happens that you are carrying a backpack instead of a parachute, the fall is pretty hard.
I would like to know how to ensure that I am actually on the right track in identifying the right women...and don't you tell me to go to church...Church girls are like vampires, they lure you with their sweet angeling conservative smile, and before you know it, you are violated in the most disconcerting way, next thing you know, you're the one calling on Jesus....(breathing heavily)
Sorry about that...before blaming location, you should look at the mindset going to the location, and how you ended up with what may have been the only...hum...vampire in the room.
To know if you are on track, you must look at your trails. Chances are if your are single now, things didn't work out before. The failures of your past may shed light on the pattern of your choices and behavior.
In other words, to amass a fortune, do you try to gamble on a lottery ticket, or do you work and invest time and effort?
The mindset going in determine the framework in which you will operate. That is why,the success of a relationship begins at the objective behind "Hello, my name is..."
It is not a law written in stone, but if all precautions are taken care of, the only surprises are the good ones.
But Next, Let's walk together and see if those Godly principles were applied in the past. Take me to the Ghosts of past girlfriends...who is first?
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